but boy am I grumpy!

I dont really want to walk the dogs with hubby right now. He is right: I am  very negative today. He almost started telling me how disappointed he had been with us in the last 10 years because i was always 'weak'....in the car, yes (thats his prefered fighting spot. very claustrophobic truly.). So anyway, it went nowhere that comment and I told him to remarry. He became very very calm and more gentle.