We just sent her a big bouquet of bright flowers for tomorrow. Its her birthday on the 12th. The day her mother passed away last year, also the wedding day of her parents. I may have alienated her somewhat with my weirdness but the love is real between me and my sister in law. And her brother and her. It is such a neat tradition to send flowers to family! From across the world too. BJG family is from down under, NZ and australia.