I made peace wit my sister after a super rude email I sent her where I called her selfish. She is absolutely very different than me.  And I aboslutely have no idea about her mind right now. About who she has become in her heart. So anyway, I apologized of course for the uncouth email out of the blue to her. And she claims we never had any lovers in the brothers mooney. I find that super hard to believe but I take her word for it. I could have sworn she went out with the eldest for a while....My mind is made up of dreams I think! ah!