But I called her last week so really, not today, it is not a good idea.

Maybe in three weeks.

I am exceedingly blessed that hubby always came to see me in hospital at the first 10 years of our life together, even before we had decided to be together for life. On two occasion I had just broken up with him (1998 and 2001). Yet he visited, once all the way from toronto to montreal, and I aksed him if we were together. He asked me what I wanted. I said, I am your girlfriend then.