Not one person I emailed in the last 4 days has emailed back. This makes me sad. My father in law does not want anything to do with emailing me anymore after october bloopers, my sister in law is not emailing either, my friends in montreal neither and my sister wont tell me where she is on holiday (might be out west and she does not want to see me!).  It may be that most people are busy simply. But what a coincidence! October may have been too crazy on emails to warrant not having lost a few pen pals...sad after almost three years of weirdness, it finally bit me back.