I think I am starting to stress out. I dont find the way hubby works conducive to good work: he does three things at the same time: read the news, watch a movie and prepare his classes. His focus should be channeled to work. I am afraid to say he seems very very lazy and avoids work and emails a lot.I am sure it is his forty years of heavy smoking of pot that has demoralised him and eroded his attitude. Pot makes you not care about many things: what you say, what you look like, and what time it is! I picked up heavily smoking pot at 30 years. Since then, I could never hold a full time job.