Songs of the Bardo are singing...and hubby left the wake for his father by now and is waiting for his plane to the north island.  May all go well. Amen. Om mani peme hung. I cant believe how easily Ross, my father in law, died: within 2 days of never having felt ill before. It leads me to confirm absolutely what a great man he was and has been to all of us. So odd to die so conveniently for everyone and so quickly. Amen. May I die as quickly as him? Whenever God wants me to move on, of course...I am in no rush.