I lodged a complaint againts the post office outlet I used since 4 packages have been returned in the last month or so.

I did well to do this I think. I wasted about 100$ in a month for stuff that never got delivered. And they dont issue refunds at post canada for returned to sender mail due to mistake by said post office outlet.

He was right to say he could not refund me and I am happy to have checked on that. I thought he was just being an asshole.

We went for a walk to relax a bit after the utburst of hubby when I told him about the post office outlet. He went totally mad and said I shoudl have threathened him! What a nutcase! He is really crazy at times in what he tells me to do. He said also I was 'fucking stupid' to have given him a cider a while back, to that post office clerk. I came back to that and he apologized: being nice is never 'fucking stupid'.