hubby and I talk about EVERYTHING except our tortures. Though i finally told him some of mine very briefly after 17 years.

this open converstaion or level of communication is very precious for our happiness. I never saw hubby covered in pooh but I told him at lenght about my pooh issues. It was so very frustrating to wipe SO MUCH all the time because my back was broken. It seems to have healed. welcome the pooh in our life, japan: it is a teacher.