I think watching interviews with the 14th and Tenzin Palmo all night really enlightened me abut tibetan buddhism, its true spirit, which is NOT, contrary to what I always thought, Crazy wisdom. Crazy wisdomis just that: crazy. The best example of a rare crazy wisdom master may be Jesus, who died in the craziest way possible to try to make sense of as Himself. But Jesus was never mean to kind people or vulnerable people.
Hubby went at the cafe without dogs to study and read. He seemed in a good mood.