One of her chorus line in a song is 'you've got to have fear in your heart...'. Thankfully, tonight, I have close to no fear in my heart. But a time may come when this will change. Know I love my husband very much but he is quite deluded himself about the wolrd and the meaning of life. He was arguing with me that growth is stupid to expect in all human beings, he even said some people dont need to grow.....a philosopher said that!I cannot believe it myself.Such unwise words just for the sake of arguing with my deep convictions. I straght out told him I thought he was not being genuine in the conversation and he left screaming that I never listen to him and keep abusing him....he is at war with me and the wolrd in his crazy mind.