We chose to marry the gender that overall (parensta nd siblings especially) was the kindest on our mental health growing up.

My mother was nut but was never ever treated as such. My sister is a noone nice.

I have ONLY male presence in this life right now and throughout most of my old age.

By the way here is why I think the ex singer of Savage garden divorced his boyfriend: they realized they were brothers at birth....ouch! Why is hubby not gay? He had his strong sisters too, not just his mother But most importantly, his mother was treated as a sick woman by everyone all along. That makes sense when your mother is nuts that everyoe knows it that she is sick.