I tried to have a conversation with him about this assigment of mine to talk to his insurance company and he looked more competent than me to discuss his own case with them. But then he freaked out when I asked a question and I have no idea why he freaked out and left the room. I am simply not sure I am sane enough to represent hubby to his disablity insurance company. Hubby is a total wreck and incapable of communicating with me on stressful topics without misinterpreting everything I say. I dont want to speak on his behalf to the company. I think he should do it himself. Get over his phobia. He is indulging all his phobias and refuses to do anything about work these days. Very difficult to look after...I hope he takes all his pills at least. (He went to bed and forgot his pill so I brought it to him to take). It is not yet 7pm.