Turly, he is totally unreasonable and irrational about Charlotte. And most of all, selfish. he wants to run with her for an hour each morning and cries because he cannot and says I took his puppy away. Such is the personality of a narcissistic man who cries like a child for made up reasons and bullies like an ego. He trulyhates me and believes I am there to make him feel miserable..ha ha ha...we may not be a match made in heaven maybe. though I think we are.