Yes truly, how often do we practice selflessness , all of us, when we have everything we need materially on top of booze for Noel and tukey sandwiches daily? I have requested of God to give me something to work on. Selflessness comes to mind. Meaning: be nice, to everyone, sweet and kind to my pets and hubby, though I may feel tired to the max and down at times. This is just functional living. Not the vacation I have had for the last 4 years where it was super easy to be kind to everyone who was not a complete dick. By forgetting my own sufferings, i become present to others whom I care for. And can help them better since I am present. Less me, more them.