It is so true.Thing is, because we are all weird and sick most of us with a good heart, we hurt each other all throughout our lives. please understand this about yoruslef and your loved ones towards you too. Sinning againt each other just means we were tempted and fucked up because we are meak. So please, forgive your loves ones and repent to god for what you did to them in weird states of emotional distress or unhappiness.

honour them now. write for them. Pay tribute. Share memories. fictionalized if it is safer for them. All this love for each other is truly, as lay people, the ultimate grace of god. but we DO have to repent to God at each lifetimes for harms we did and things we said. This practice will protect your mind againts fascism. take responsibility for everything you do and say. Even when drunk. even when ill, Even all the time. This is freedom.