When I was younger, I was much more rigid socially and felt easily, or easier anyway, attacked by anodine banal comments people would tell me and criticism.

I have much much soften and changed, for the better for my peace of mind.

It is this realization, this deep accountability and humilty to God and each other, that i hope hubby discovers one day. This  is deep peace of mind and heart and meaningfulness as humans and sentience.