That is one of my beliefs.

But what shall we do if we are simply fucked up and that is why we sin?

Cry, cry,cry to God and the loved one hurt for redemption for us all from samsara.

This is especially a lesson for my beloved niece I dont know much at all. This BS online talk about 'forgiving yourslef' is total nasty selfish bullshit- Only God can forgive you. Our job is NEVER to forgive ourselves but to repent repent repent.