What a perfect simple dad!
I never complained much about him nor was I too too fucked up thinking of him as a youth. Though he is tight with his money like anyone with a good head on their shoulder who is not millionaire, the effort he puts with his time, presence and energy and effort to accomodate or help us all his children and grandchildren throughout our lives, is spectacular. At 85, he gets up at 6H00am to drive his granddaughter to work because she is temporarily living at their place, close to her work for now. Its a 15 minutes drive there or 20 but almost 2 hours with public transport.
He is. THE most generous of us all with his time and effort personal for all of us. Amen father. You are in paradise before us all I think and sure hope so you are never sad again because of us. amen.