I have been so idiotic in sending an enveloppe with The roses of solift by Lilou (60 pages) that said on the enveloppe with posting: 'To D and his chinese pelotte' in french.

She no doubt would have gotten totally offended though I say it to be edgy and cute and certainly not racist as I am a pelotte quebecoise myself. Anyway, he is still writing to me so he is still young like me at heart. May he live old, happy and healthy with his family! amen.