He said I bullied him because I said the soup was delicious, and he assumed, wrongly, I said that to hurry him at the table.

I asked him what part of my english he did not understand when I said simply It is delicious.  I did not say 'hurry up, it i s getting cold!'It is a new recipe from a zen nun and the first of hers I ever try. Delish.

Anyway, he started yelling at me and I totally forget what he screamed before going to lock himself up in his room to sleep more, like a child. He has no idea how out of my way I went to cook that meal as I went a second time by foot to the supermarket and cooked it after he said he would have some when asked. He really ruins everything. Even the help we all kindly offer him. I told him he was an asshole and he said, crying like a baby victim, 'yes, everyone tells me'.....pathetic. I have to throw away his bowl prepared with much care by me as there is noodles in the soup and it wont stay fresh and tasty. What a fucking disappointmnet once again when I do more than required to look after him. He does not benefit from any of it. He is tooill and downright foolishly stupid about everything. The truth appears clear to me: he does not want to heal really because he does not want to change ANY of his behaviour everyone complains about. He still seem to think he does no wrong and is a constant victim of everyone who complains about his behaviour. What a fuck up! It shows that he is not taking his full pills prescription. He gets aggressive if I remind him to take them.  Such a fucked up attitude: he reminded me of mine for 25 years! Does he think he is a god or what,this fucked up arrogant man who shits on eveyone who tries to help him profoundly? He is grateful for nothing and refuses all help if he feels upset and he always feels upset for ridiculous reasons instead of the reality of the world. He has a narcissistic personality. And thinks he is righteous only, not absurd and aggressive....I dont think he ever tried to put himself in soemone else's shoes to see their point of view. Too rigid and self centred for that when he converses.