He was admiring Charlotte and I realized she was in a very precarious position on an ledge next to the stairs outside, so i simply said she was sure to fall and could hurt herself...just then, she fell but did not hurt herself. Hubby yelled at me that as he was admiring her, i was 'condemning' her....what the fuck choice of word is that? I just thought it unsafe. He accuses me of harassment to him and cruelty. I am certainly never ever cruel. That is HIS sin. Not mine. His accusations of me are so fucking extreme in the language he uses. He told me many many many times I was like Trump. ha ha h aha....how nutty he can be! For many years it fucked me up totally he told me I was so vicious and nasty at heart....i have since learned that he is very sick, and he does not seem to understand love vs hatred in people. He mixes the two up , weirdly enough.