BJG never takes responsibilities for his bad behaviour. He breaks down as a victim instead. But he has been telling me recently and all those years, that I have been a terrible influence on his life. I am sure he blames his missing tenure in Ontario on me and my health. And for sure, living with a mentally ill to that point person is horrible often when they are sick. He lost his mind here and a bit in toronto too. Pressure was too much, i was too ill and he was too hateful.