He is in great form! Enjoying his family time a lot it seems like. I am very happy he is there with them all. This year off work has been all about healing. From our horrendous 8 years in BC (horrendous for our relationship for a while). Hubby wants me to visit but we dont have 10K. Even if his dad paid, I would feel really bad using that money for such a short trip. Plus we have the dogs and cat. His dad pays for everything,  including me often. I dont know if it is kosher to use 10K to go see them. The dogs and cat really stress me out too. It is too much money to put on their inlaw I think. Although it it not for me to say I guess. I am too stressed by leaving the dogs and cat here in shelter and the amount of cash needed chokes me.