The house is ours, the days are long and busy and nice, we know wonderful acquaintances, we have three amazingly serene and happy animals. We eat what we want when we want it and we usually eat pretty well except for hubby's huge consumption of ice cream and chocolate bars daily. Yet he is losing weight from his bum worries and stress and lack of sleep. I am super worried about his health and whenever I mention it to him, he says I harass him. He seems so very very deeply unhappy deep down. I am sad when I look at him destroying his health.