We should have her lotions , soaps, favourites cheese, and such delivered to her home. Though I dont think it is safe to deliver (too much theft in her buiding), we could very well deliver it ourselves. She does not want visitors so we would be very quick: just drop off a big box of good stuff! We can have some stuff for her son too in it.  We should do this by this week end. Excellent idea: hubby is THE most inspiring for cool gifts to those wihtout nothing.