Yes, he really annoys me today and made a huge mess yet again because he was resisting me picking him up to bring him to his food.

I smacked him on the bum and hubby protested he would hate me from now on. I suppose he is right. it is since I sprayed him with water when he did not stop fighting Hardy that he stopped cuddling me.  i am having a love hate relationship with Laurel it sounds like. He is never satisfied with us and that stresses me out.  Plus I am super disappointed he does not cuddle me anymore. He still searches for my company during the day and stays close, but no more cuddles.