The unbelievable relief would be to see hubby come back and apologizing and saying I love you. He has never done it in 30 years except once.

no matter what happens and his mood when he comes back, I will certainly ask him how he is feeling.

The second good thing would be for him to have gone to hospital to ask for meds for himself. I think he may want to consider that: he seems quite sick to me.

I dont want to explain to you what the worst would be: he does not talk for two days and then, does as if nothing had ever happened.