BJG yelled at me harsh nasty filthy insults because I misheard him.

He said a quick sorry while saying it was not his fault.

I find that so very depressing this victim complex who rarely apologizes when stepping out of line. If ever (i.e. apologize properly).

It feels like he truly hates me and thinks I bully and abuse him all the time when in fact, he is the one with the bad attitude and the insults towards me. I forget how many times since the night we got married he said he wanted divorce. he is a child in emotional maturity. Frankly, that is excatly his problem. A child I suspect was never ever punished or very rarely. And obviously absolutely never made to apologize. His sister, despite my monthly crazy emails here and there amongst the good ones, says he is very lucky to have me. I tend to think so. But he obviously hates it. He would probably remarry if he could and was a widower. Diego Rivera remarried at 67 when frida died at 47. He was a total womanizer though. I found that sad he remarried at his age instead of living as a widower. She had given him everything of herself. And he remarried when she died. He died 3 years later.