Iam crying right now: there is no discussion possible at all between BJG and I together. i told him he never apologized for losing it totally and calling me a fucking c=bitch three times for me telling him off for being rude. It is true i told him off by saying gently 'fuck you' myself at his rudeness but his reaction was to explode and yell upstairs and slam his door and insult me and yell fuck you about 10 times at the top of his lungs! yet I am the one who was rude he says! Why does being insulted make him explodeto that extent when he insults me all the time?

He says I mind fuck him all the time when in fact we just have huge miscommunication problem. He thinks I am so full of hatred at him it is mad: I cannot reson with him whastioever then when he thinks that. He sees none of my efforts to help him and show him love and support. in his mind,I am the cause of all his troubles. He is deluded and quite mad. A narcissist simply.