I told him affectionately that he was a very polite 'boss'...he was sharing his thoughts about whether billy had been fed once or not and asked me to feed him.

The reaction of his that followed was complete explosion and tears and screaming he hates bosses and is never one and he does not want to be and he is no bully....What kis wrong with this dude, everyone? any thoughts? I even acknowledge I like bossing too. He gets offended for no fucking reason! Why does he deny so much who he is in his behaviour if not in his heart?