IT IS NOT NECESSARILY BECAUSE THEY HAVE MUCH SINNED. IT IS SO THEIR LIFE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM THE PREVIOUS ONE AND WHAT WAS NOT PRACTICE IN ONE LIFE BECOMES THE MAIN PRACTICE IN THE LATER ONE: HATRED IN ONE'S MIND AND HOW TO GET THROUGH  TO ENLIGHTENED KINDNESS AGAIN, THE KINDNESS THAT CAME SO EASILY TO US FROM LACK OF HEAVY TRAUMAS BEFORE. WHEN PEOPLE ARE STILL UNDER THE EFFECT OF TRAUMAS, IT IS VERY VERY HARD FOR THEM TO BE KIND. UNLESS THEY HAVE MUCH MUCH SUPPORT. I HAD SO SO SUPPORT.