Hubby flips out when I worry about his sloppiness....The car door looks totally fucked up: the insulation is off completely and I worried about the safety of the door for the dogs.

Its been fucked up for about 3 years and never repaires. This lack chronic and resisting to repairs of hubby is driving me super batty and anxious about our safety in old age and as responsible adults who can look after themselves properly. He rarely has anything repaired and everything is borken in the house and in the car. The car is a filthy mess of garbage that Charlotte chews every day. He does not inspire trust when he is that very lazy and sloppy about doing anything with utter care. When this car is dead, he wants to buy a brand new ecological car for minimum 45k plus about 10-15K to rewire the outside house...it will get detsroyed within a year or two he takes no care of his stuff. Complete unrelaistic ambition to have an eco friendly car and a vanity rpoject that is just a huge waste of money since we never take care of our stuff. That is why usually, we never buy expensive stuff.