Now that I am finally doing better after a broken down November, he is super sweet again. He does not want to stop weed though. I suggested we did until Noel. We'll see . I'll ask again tonight.
UPDATE
Oh yay: our neighbour Katie across from us is finally putting up her Noel lights today! Whoopie! Every night I will see it, as I sit facing the window in the living room. There are about 5 houses with lights for the season so far on our street.