I was talking to hubby how we will have to stop all recreational drugs and alcool and cigarettes. He has never ever done it in his whole lifetime. I have. For many years at a time. I got super inspired about seeing all this like God's ultimate test for us both: frugality and sobriety. I feel great about it and think we can thrive anyway and learn enormously together through these later years. May I be right and may Buddha guide and give me resolve through fasting and meritorious activities and practices.